Benedict Cumberbatch Reads Nick Cave’s Beautiful Letter About Grief

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We would rather not grieve. Because we avoid it, death can leave us numb, and we may not know how to talk about it without turning loss into a lesson. “Even when it’s expected, death or loss still comes as a surprise,” writes psychotherapist Megan Devine in h..

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